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Sunday, 27 December 2020

New Year - To Resolve or not to Resolve. That is the Question.

Some years I do, some I don't. This year is like no other & to be honest there doesn't seem much point in making resolutions. We can't control so much of what is going on & the usual ones don't really fit with our situation - Out of the EU with a cobbled together Deal, which means very little. In an even worse situation with Covid 19 than last year.

But - must try to be positive! I will:-

  • Try very hard not to buy anything wrapped in plastic.
  • Make sure I recycle properly. (Exactly which plastic is & which isn't?)
  • Buy as little new clothing as possible & avoid cheap brands who are dependent on cheap labour.
  • Recycle as much as possible to charity shops.
  • Lobby hard on Climate Change issues.
  • Find an exercise routine I will actually stick to now I can't swim.
  • Cook from scratch more & eat less cook chill food, (which isn't as nice anyway).
  • Not travel abroad. When I can go on holiday, there is plenty of the UK which is beautiful & interesting I haven't been to. A holiday is a luxury. A holiday abroad is not justifiable.
  • Find something useful & interesting to do to replace the volunteering with the public which stopped 8 months ago. I'm Zoomed & Webinared out - interesting & informative though they all were.

There must be more, but if there are too many I won't be able to remember them! 

I do think that we all need to think seriously about what changes we each should make in our lives in the light of the complete mess the world is in. We each have a responsibility to fact check the information we are getting & make sure our decisions are based on real facts, not some crackpot "fake news" conspiracy theory.

We do have power collectively. We must use it now. There isn't much time left. We have to stop depleting the worlds resources & destroying habitats & species. The population of Easter Island died out completely partly because they chopped down all of the trees - complete deforestation. Then they realised that they couldn't leave & find somewhere else to destroy because they were too isolated in the middle of the Pacific.

I believe we can do it. We can turn round our selfish & thoughtless behaviour. We are intelligent, innovative & clever. We just have to decide what is really important & do it.

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Simples!

Wednesday, 23 December 2020

Christmas is a coming.... So is the Pestilence.

I've made the red cabbage & the chocolate chestnut mousse. I've sent ecards & wrapped the presents. I've had Christmas phone calls with friends. I even went for a pre Christmas lunch with friends under a portable gazebo with walls today. We had two sides open so that the air could blow through. Who would have thought we would ever eat a Christmas meal outside, in the pouring rain, wearing jumpers & coats? But we did & it was lovely.

It was good to bear in mind how lucky we are. Financially secure, home owners, in a nice location, with friends & family who care for us. We definitely have more than just the basic necessities of life. I walked home through Summertown past two rough sleepers in shop doorways. Their bedding & cardboard was sodden. Why? Why is it still happening? Why are politicians & NGO's unable to solve it? Why do we tolerate it?

This morning I had to go into M&S to get a couple of food items. It was heaving. Trolleys were full to overflowing. Not sure whether that was the normal Christmas over consumption, or people getting prepared for a possible lockdown after Christmas. (Which has now proved to be true). Whatever. It's the contrast that gets me, between the "have to muchies" & the "have nothings". 

This is a unique Christmas. Nothing like it has happened in my lifetime. (Although I do remember the 3 day week, the lights going out & civil unrest). What I'm about to say will annoy. So stop reading if you are sensitive. 

Frankly I'm fed up with the whingeing. Jews have had Hanukkah, Muslims have had Eid, Hindus have had Divali. I didn't hear them moaning about having their celebrations ruined by Covid. Family is as important to them as it is to us - arguably more important to many. Christmas is 2 or 3 days. Surely we can cope? Especially as it strikes me as hypocritical in the extreme considering the percentage of people who go to church regularly. 

In England, membership is forecast to decline to 2.53 million (4.3% of the population) by 2025 according to FaithSurvey.

Covid is a unique event. Yes other countries have dealt with it better. The USA has been worse. Many countries have lied. What's the point of blame? Blame stops you from learning. Would you want to be a politician or a scientist currently? Would you do any better? How? Do you want to change places with NHS workers or Carers? Would you face disgruntled, self centred, shoppers not wearing masks & stripping shelves? 

No. Of course you wouldn't.

We are in this situation. No one deserves it. We have to cope. We have to be unselfish & think of others.

Some people need to get a grip. Others are being heroes.

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Sunday, 13 December 2020

Not Moving House - Yet!

It will be 11 weeks tomorrow since I instructed my solicitor to act for me in the sale of my present house & the purchase of my new one. I was able to give him all the documentation immediately because I had it stored in a fireproof box at home. The house I am buying is new, but leasehold. My freehold house was completed in 2008. So both are on the Land Registry & should be straight forward. It should be possible to exchange in 6 weeks.

Previously I have used specialist on line Conveyancing only companies. This time it is a "proper" Solicitor. Previously I have been able to track progress, or lack of it, on line. For example there is an online portal called Veyo, but there are dozens of Conveyancing companies using similar tools. You don't have to keep chasing. You know what has been done & what they are waiting for & they know you know.

This time things haven't worked well. There are several reasons. Covid & Brexit don't help of course. Both have caused uncertainty in all markets. There was a flurry of activitiy in the housing market after  the relaxation of the first Lockdown because of pent up demand. Those people want to move in before Christmas. Then there is the Stamp Duty pause until March 2021. People don't want to miss out on that.

I accept all of that - Completely out of my control.

However, I didn't get the lease document from the sellers untill the evening of the 27th November - Almost 9 weeks into the process. (Apparently my solicitor had it for a month before that). That document, it transpired, is an old, generic, document which is used for any properties sold by the company, who have 60 top end retirement estates in the south of England. Goodness knows how many individual properties. Their first property was in near Salisbury in 1977. I get the distict impression that not much has changed in the document since then! It is written in completely impenetrable, unpunctuated, legalese!

Call me strange, but I expect to be able to read & understand a document I sign. The Plain English Campaign agree with me & give a Crystal Mark as a seal of excellence. 

http://www.plainenglish.co.uk/

In the past two weeks I have spent hours, no exaggeration, trying to understand & get answers to queries that arose from the lease document. It simply isn't relevant to my property in places. Some of the clauses are ridiculous - I should have my inside windows cleaned every 4 weeks & get agreement if I want to decorate the inside of my home! Really?

I have been the "fish paste in the sandwich" between my Agent, my Solicitor and a really competent & helpful person who works for the estate I am supposed to be buying into. Speedy & effective communication is really important in conveyancing. I think the solicitors are just overwhelmed with the sheer volume of deals they are working on currently. Those who shout loudest stay at the top of the pile. I don't work that way. I just expect competence, professionalism & efficiency. After all I'm paying quite a bit for it.

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Now, if I don't exchange by 12.00 tomorrow I lose my removal slot. I'm not going to make it, because according to my solicitor he has been waiting since the 1st December for the answers to quite a few queries. I've no idea what they are or why they haven't been answered.

I'm more than a bit pissed off - At both sides of the equation. My buyer is ready to exchange. Goodness knows how long he will remain patient. 

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Sunday, 29 November 2020

I Wish....

 So many things: - 

  • I wish we were not destroying our beautiful planet & so many of the living things in it, including ourselves.
  • I wish people treated eachother with loving kindness & respect, regardless of their beliefs & cultural differences.
  • I wish people were not so territorial & realised that we do not own the land on which we stand or anything within it or above it.
  • I wish war, disaster & pestilence did not exist.
  • I wish we welcomed change & understood that things simply cannot stay the same for ever.
  • I wish we understood & valued the things that really matter.
  • I wish everyone could have a generous helping of generosity & love for others. 
  • I wish basic necessities like good food, clean water, shelter, security & love were available for everyone.
  • I wish we didn't waste so much that we are given.

Mostly I wish I could believe in a supreme being who could make all these things true. But I can't. 

So, people - it's down to us. Each one of us individually.

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 Make your choice. What sort of a world do you want for Christmas this year?

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Thursday, 19 November 2020

Truth Decay - Barak to Boris

I listened to Barak Obama being interviewed about his new book "A Promised Land"on Radio 4 this morning.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/americas/us-politics/barack-obama-book-live-reading-highlights-best-bits-b1724527.html

I've always thought he was a pretty good president - well informed, literate, thoughtful, a good communicator - what you need in a good leader. Such a contrast to both Boris & tRump. tRump seems to be the model Boris follows in so many ways, not least the tenuous hold he has on truth & the aggrandised, erroneous, image he has of himself.

So I think Obama's phrase "truth decay" is worryingly clever. We live in a world where communication is instant. I can find out what is happening anywhere from Venezuela to Kazakhstan. The difficulty I have is knowing whether what I'm reading, or even seeing is true. Truth has decayed to such an extent that conspiracy theories are rife. We trust nothing & no one.

https://www.kcl.ac.uk/investigating-the-most-convincing-covid-19-conspiracy-theories

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I do believe what I'm told by reputable websites like Kings College London. So if they produce this about conspiracy theories I have confidence in what I'm reading.

On the other hand there is the lengthy crowdfunded movie, Hold Up, which purports to uncover a conspiracy by global governments and pharmaceutical companies to use the pandemic to assert control over citizens.

https://www.independent.co.uk/news/world/europe/covid-conspiracy-theory-france-antivaxx-b1729249.html

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If something is produced well there will always be people who are taken in by it. If someone in a position of supreme authority, like tRump or Boris, says something, people will believe it. People want to follow leaders. People are gullible & too lazy to fact check with reliable information. The media doesn't police what they publish, believing that everyone has the right to their opinions. They do. I believe that, but they also need to be told when something is a lie.

We can't afford Truth Decay. The Anti Vaxers will have a seriously detrimental effect on stopping virus transmission if they have their way & that affects us all. Politicians deliberately lying in order to achieve power & then hold on to it affects us all. tRump & Boris have made this into an art form & seriously damaged democracy in doing so.

Everyone has to fight against Truth Decay or Democracy & the Rule of Law has had it.

Wednesday, 11 November 2020

Black & White

Frankly I'm confused about a lot of things. Maybe it's age. When I took my family on holiday to Kenya I found it really difficult to adjust to the fact that the country is pronounced differently to the way I had always pronounced it - (with a long or short e). Yesterday I listened to the news about the FA chairman resigning because of his use of "unacceptable language".

https://www.bbc.co.uk/sport/football/54894864 

I believe all people are equal. I do not believe that some are more important or worth more than others. Everyone is a human being. I also think that you have to judge people on their merit, on their actions & behaviour. So there are people that I would choose not to associate with, because the way they behave or their beliefs are not in tune with mine. Nothing whatsoever to do with skin colour, religion or ethnicity.

Language is important & changes over time. New words arrive & old ones are discarded. My current confusion is because I didn't know that the word "coloured" was offensive. Quite the opposite. Having Googled I now know why it is.

http://ichef.bbci.co.uk/news/624/mcs/media/images/80545000/jpg/_80545757_getty_sign.jpg 

http://www.bbc.co.uk/newsbeat/article/30999175/warning-why-using-the-term-coloured-is-offensive

I do understand now & will try not to use the term, but I'm not sure that I agree. I would have hitherto felt fine about using words like black, brown, coloured, white, mixed race, African, Asian, Indian...as nouns, as descriptors. Simple as that - not perjorative at all. Just a way of naming, of describing who I was talking about. Definitely not with any connotations of slavery. Certainly not in any way condoning slavery.

I am content with being described as white, British, female, widowed....We need to use language to pin down our thoughts so that others can understand. I think the thing that matters most is how we treat other people, how we behave. How we talk to them. Whether we listen to them. Whether we respect them & their point of view. 

I wouldn't mind being described as half German, but I would mind being described as a Nazi.

So my confusion remains. I know that if I called someone coloured I would not mean anything derogatory or demeaning. But they might think I did. So I have to try to remember. 


  


Monday, 9 November 2020

Comment & Share

I'm quite intrigued by the number of people who read my Blog - The many different countries in the world in which my readers are based. I'm not sure how readers find my Blog, but I assume that the fact that I post on Facebook & Twitter is the main portal. 

Initially the Blog was only really read by friends & maybe family. I still have my stalwart followers, many who have been with me for years, but there are a surprising number of others. 

In the years I've been Blogging my purpose has changed. Initially it was simply personal a way of dealing with the traumatic events of 2009 in my life. I missed having my husband to discuss issues with & just talk to. Now I think I am a commentator on life - the things that annoy me, the things I value, philosophy, politics...anything that lights a spark of interest. Anything that inspires me to research & find out more.

So, the reason for this Post is that although friends do post a comment very occasionally & email me or actually tell me what they think, I would really like to know what other readers think of my Posts. I'm happy to have any comment or feedback - I would just be very interested in the opinions of anyone who reads Senile Sealion.

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If you think what I say is interesting or useful, then do also please feel free to Share any Post.




Sunday, 8 November 2020

Choice - America Decides

The USA has voted & Joe Biden as president elect. Americans have individually made a choice. 

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65 million, almost half of voters who voted, voted by post.

100 million Americans voted early, either in-person or by mail, before polling stations opened on November 3.

It was the highest ever turnout, with over 155 million Americans casting a vote - 66.9% of the population 

Biden's margin of victory is more than 4 million votes & rising.

Biden is on track to win 42 counties that were won by Trump four years ago.

Biden has 290 college votes - Trump has 214

Biden has 75,198,127 votes (51.5%) - Trump has 70,804,457 votes (48.5%)

58% of white male voters voted for Trump. 1 in 3 Hispanic men voted for Trump.

Trumps vote was highest in counties where use of a facemask is lowest.

The Democrats still have a majority in the House 214 to 196 but it's close. They need 218 to win.

The Senate is even closer 48 to 48 needing 51 to win & 4 seats left to call.

It's all just fascinating. But the bottom line is that I am personally relieved not to have Trump in a position of power for 4 more years. However the completely split society voting reveals is really troubling. More so because we in the UK have so often followed on from what happens in the USA.

We too are a divided nation. We are polarised by Brexit & we are beginning to be split by Covid. We are divided geographically North & South. The divisions of rich & poor are clear.

We don't know how the divisions will play out in America. I was shocked to see premises being boarded up in preparation for rioting over the election. Civil unrest is just under the surface in America but also possibly in the UK.

Americans have to choose how they go forward from this point. But so do we. I hope we don't mirror the American way.

Saturday, 7 November 2020

Doubt

To be uncertain about, consider questionable or unlikely. Lack of confidence - Distrust. Inclination not to believe or accept. A state of affairs giving rise to uncertainty, hesitation, or suspense which often interferes with decision making. 

Great! I know what it is. But it's a feeling I wasn't familiar with before. I am in many contexts nowadays. I thought I knew what is important, what is true, how I should behave, who to believe, who to trust. Almost all of those things have been tossed aside in so many areas of life today. 

I doubt that God exists, I doubt that politicians have my interests & the interests of the world I live in at heart. I doubt that many of my fellow humans care about anything other than self interest. I doubt that the very hard choices confronting us will be made in time to save the world as we know it. I doubt that my Grandsons will benefit from a life as secure as mine has been. I doubt that poverty, famine, inequality, injustice, war & pestilence will cease for millions of people. I doubt that the rich will suddely see that they have an  obligation to spread their wealth more equally & be truly philanthropic. I doubt that we will see the light & stop raping the planet of it's finite resources. I doubt that the unsustainability of the constant mantra of growth & consumerism will cease. I doubt that multinational companies will see the light & work to benefit anyone other than their shareholders & senior managers.

I doubt so many things. I also doubt my ability to solve any of this.

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But I don't doubt that I should do my very best to do something. I should not just sit back & say the problems are too big. I alone can't make any difference.

I don't doubt that one voice & one action can become many voices & many actions. A voice in the wilderness can become a multitude fighting for what is right. Many hands make light work. 

We humans are clever, resourceful, beings. We have technology on our side. We can change our destructive patterns of behaviour.

But there really isn't much time.

Sunday, 1 November 2020

Being Alive

There is a big difference between being alive & simply living. It's basically about quality of life. What makes your life worth living? What makes you happy? What gives your life meaning & purpose? Are you happy with just being here, breathing, not dead?

Well I'm not. We face another lockdown on Thursday. A month of basically staying at home for most of the time. People like me who live alone & were shielding can still see friends or family in our "support bubble" thank goodness. But we face hours & days of solitude - again. We are thrown back on our own resources - having already spent 3 months in our homes & done most of the things that occupied the time & distracted us from the reality of Covid.

I am perfectly capable of doing my own risk assessment for both my own & other people's continued health & well being. I am not convinced that we are on the correct course of action to deal with Covid. That conclusion is based on trying very hard to compare the UK trajectory to other more successful countries. 

https://www.theguardian.com/commentisfree/2020/oct/10/continual-local-lockdowns-answer-covid-control

https://www.thelancet.com/journals/lancet/article/PIIS0140-6736(20)32007-9/fulltext#seccestitle10

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We are not learning from countries that have previously had Covid type epidemics. Countries which were far better prepared than we were. Countries which had invested time, effort & money to heed the warnings, years ago, that this pandemic was coming. Our government is stuck in an expensive rut which is killing people & possibly destroying our economy. 

Unless we get a prime minister & cabinet that is prepared to really listen to people who do know what they are talking about, accept that the present strategy is never going to work & change course, we are doomed for years to repeat this cycle. People like Prof Devi Sridhar, chair of global public health at the University of Edinburgh.

I want to live, not to just exist in a vacuum of housework, paperwork, communicating via my computer, reading, watching TV, eating & sleeping. I would actually be prepared to risk getting Covid if necessary. I accept the fact that it might kill me. Dying is a natural part of living. The important thing is the quality of the living. I don't want to simply watch life going on through my window like I watch the TV.

I am unlikely to get Covid if I am extremely careful. Therefore, if I follow the rules, I am unlikely to pass it on to anyone else. Therefore I will not be a burden on the NHS. I am a responsible adult. I should be able to live my life in relative freedom whilst respecting the rights of others in my community.

 

Saturday, 31 October 2020

Similarity & Difference

Human beings have evolved to be hugely different - in appearance, attitudes, intelligence, culture & every possible variable. I imagine that is good for natural selection. Some have to survive, some have to fall by the wayside. Life & Death - the two inevitable sides of the coin. 

I can accept difference. I don't expect everyone to be like me or behave like me. I quite enjoy debating differences in belief, attitudes or culture with people. I don't even mind if those debates are heated. We are entitled to our own opinions & should hold them dear.

Interestingly the husband I chose was very different to me in many ways. A lot of my friends also hold very different views & beliefs to mine. However underlying that difference there is always a basic similarity in norms of behaviour. We don't resort to physical violence when disagreeing. We respect the other person & their views. We are still able to love or like the person regardless of differences of opinion.

So I find it intolerable living in the world as it is today. I cannot tolerate the rape of our planet through greed, consumerism & need for power & financial gain. I cannot tolerate politicians like Trump & Boris who are never sated with power & who are prepared to lie & cheat to keep it, regardless of the destruction they leave behind them. I cannot tolerate the selfish attitudes of so many ordinary people who think it is OK to pursue what they see as their right to treat others badly - the verbal & physical abuse, the nuisance, the taking what they want without any right to it.

We are living in a time of huge change in so many ways. All of the norms I grew up with have either gone or been undermined. In many ways the world is a better place, I can see that. But in many ways we are on a path to destruction. Destruction of people, places & the world as we knew it.

This is the time to make choices & the choices we make will determine not only our future as a human race, but also the future of the world as we know it. Each and every one of us has a responsibility to ourselves, future generations, the world we live in & every living thing. We can't avoid this. It may already be too late. 

Our planet is a huge & complex system. We have not cared for it enough. We have been selfish & thoughtless of the consequences of our actions. Now we have to face up to what we have done & try to put it right.

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We have to come together despite our differences. 

Thursday, 22 October 2020

Population & Sustainability

In so many ways we are walking blindfold into the future. Blindfold, not because there isn't evidence a plenty to understand the stark reality of the Hydra we have created. Blindfold, because we are simply ignoring it & continuing with our destructive patterns of behaviour.

https://ourworldindata.org/future-population-growth

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https://populationmatters.org/the-facts/the-numbers

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We have to consider what solutions to employ to avoid this compeletely unsupportable & unbalanced growth in population. We don't have the resources to support this number of people. How many worlds will we need to meet the needs of future populations?

https://www.bbc.co.uk/news/magazine-33133712

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I don't need to be a scientist to know that none of this works. Even if we devise ever more brilliant methods of farming, of producing energy, of having enough land & materials to house everyone, using less water....It simply doesn't compute. There will just be too many people for our finite resources.

Yes, we may find another life supporting planet. We might be able to live on a self sufficient space station. Do we want that?  

The world is reaching "peak child". But the world population is also ageing. There will come a time when there aren't enough young people in work to keep the infrastructure & financial systems working in some parts of the world. In the second-half of the century the number of births is expected to slowly fall and the number of deaths to rise, so the global population growth rate will continue to fall in countries like the UK. This is when the world population will stop increasing in the future. But it won't be the same everywhere. Developing nations will still have huge populations who, not unreasonably, want the lifestyle & advantages we have.

This, truly, is the elephant in the room. The elephant of populations.

Wednesday, 14 October 2020

Responsibility & Liability - Access to Justice

I was the plaintiff in a trial in the Crown Court on Monday. It related to the accidental injury I suffered three & a half years ago. I walked into a metal bicycle rack overhanging more than half of the pavement at head height. I lay on the pavement, unconcious, for an hour before I was found. I was concussed & still can't remember anything about the day until late evening in hospital. I also fell badly & injured my shoulder & arm - Rotator cuff damage.

I thought the whole thing was black & white. The car shouldn't have been parked with the bike rack causing an obvious danger to pedestrians. It was negligent & an accident was forseeable. 

Well no - Although I won it was a hollow victory. The defendant wasn't present & gave no statement. I wanted her to hear the impact the accident had on me & take responsibility for what she had done. 

The disclosure bundles, 2 massive ring files of 1,004 A4 pages, took days to go through, make notes on, highlight & label. I was lucky, I had hard copy. Everyone else had to use the electronic version. The case was heard via computer link, not actually in Court. I have to say that panicked me when I heard. It wasn't as bad as I imagined, but there was no opportunity to pass notes or speak to my barrister during the hearing.

I felt I was on trial.The Insurers stance had been very aggressive, accusing me of dishonesty, (which the defence barrister frequently said he wasn't doing, which I found quite patronising), exaggerating the injuries, negligence & nuisance. Also the Insurers denied that the bike rack actually caused the injuries. They actually hired private investigators, who found nothing.

The Insurers refused mediation or the offer of early settlement. When I was a magistrate we were advised that if this happened in trials we should take a view on the possible waste of Court time. The stance of the Insurers caused additional unnecessary stress to me, but the barrister was very clever & didn't give me any openings. He asked closed questions, so I couldn't elaborate on anything or put it into context. I just had to say "yes" to most of his questions.

My case was unusual because I have several chronic conditions which cause pain & fatigue. This resulted in it being difficult to prove that the concussion & rotator cuff injuries lasted a really long time. 18 months in the case of the shoulder & arm injury. That made a difference to the damages which were awarded. The very expensive independent Consultant I had to hire to write a medical report carried little or no weight because he didn't see me untill I after had recovered from the injuries. The defence & Judge thought that his report was largely my recollection of what happened. Plus there were several factual inaccuracies despite the fact that I had had to ask for him to correct the original one.

The Judge said there was "no issue about the bike rack - it was socially unacceptable, a hazard, below the duty of care, an accident was foreseeable, no H&S precautions were taken - therefore it was negligent". Then she said that I had equal duty of care to see & avoid it. Accidents happen because, for whatever reason, people don't see hazards. So this doesn't seem logical to me. No one deliberately walks into a metal hazard.

Then she said that it was clear that the injuries were caused by the bike rack, but only allowed that they lasted for 6 months not 18, despite the medical evidence to the contrary.
 
The case has cost me quite a lot of money despite the fact that my solicitor & barrister acted for me with a Conditional Fee Arrangement & I had legal insurance with Saga, which I hope will pay up.  I am truly grateful for all the time & effort my legal team put into this. I probably won't get all my costs back. But at least I did win & don't have to pay the thousands of pounds for the defence legal team. My relatively small compensation was halved because the judge said I was equally responsible for the accident. At the end of the day I hope not to be out of pocket.

I brought this case for 2 reasons. I don't think the defendant behaved well in causing an accident & afterwards & I wanted her to face up to her carelessness & lack of empathy. 
 
But also I am really fed up with the many hazards pedestrians have to cope with when walking the streets of Oxford & probably most cities, towns & villages in the UK. We are lowest in the pecking order of users of pavements & highways. I perennially walk looking down because of uneven footpaths, especially lowered kerbs in front of driveways, broken paving, obstacles on the pavement, etc etc. I do make huge efforts to be aware of what is around me for my own safety - overhanging trees & shrubs, wheelie bins, vehicles parked on the pavement, street furniture..... But hardly any of the hazards are metal, at head height, in the middle of the pavement & completely unexpected.

So that is why I feel justice wasn't done in my case. I can't accept that I was equally as negligent as the vehicle owner who parked so thoughtlessly & inappropriately. 

I could afford to take the risk financially & because I'm retired I was able to give a considerable amount of time over several years. Most people couldn't do that. 

So I don't feel that our adversarial & very expensive Justice system gives everyone an equal access to real justice.
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Sunday, 27 September 2020

Life's a Merry go Round

Or not - as the case may be. Currently it isn't merry & I'd quite like to get off. I don't seem to be spinning in tune with the Universe.

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It possibly wasn't the wisest choice to sell my house at the end of what was the worst recession in living memory, in the middle of the shambles of Brexit & then followed by Covid. But hey ho - I am a glass half full person normally & I didn't know we were likely to crash out of Brexit, or that Covid was coming.

I've sold this house twice & had several people seriously interested, but I didn't anticipate how difficult it would be to find something to buy. It's location stupid! North Oxford is a very desirable place & not much I'm interested in as a downsizer has come on the market. One of the real problems with the housing market here is that it is mainly designed for families or aspirational couples. Not retirees & emptynesters. There isn't enough smaller, 3 bedroomed property or property not on 3 floors here.

Also if you do find something you have to be prepared to spend time & money reburbishing it, because the chances are it will need it, having had elderly owners who haven't done anything for years. I was prepared for that, I've done it before. But I am getting a bit old for the hassle of it all now.  So I'm seriously considering moving away from Oxford & my much loved family.

Talking to my single friends, who are my age, we all feel the same. We are fed up with coping with the problems life throws up. My door problems have been sorted. Finally after 7 1/2 weeks of hassle with the builder - fingers crossed. Now I'm struggling with a landline which has just decided to go AWOL. It won't let me answer calls when someone phones - it immediately goes to BT voicemail. Firstly I had to try to resolve it with the phone manufacturer Gigaset, but it wasn't the phone. Then I had to try Plusnet my broadband & landline provider. They used to be excellent on customer service, but the person I spoke to really didn't understand the issue & had no idea what to do. Then I found that actually communicating with Plusnet is really difficult if you don't want to phone - online chat isn't working, you can't complete an online form, I couldn't post on Twitter....In the end I went through Resolver & that did get their attention.

It is an external BT fault as I had been saying all along. Hopefully it will be fixed in a couple of days.

The thing is it seems like a never ending Roundabout of problem solving. Often the real problem isn't the problem at all. The problem is the difficulty of getting a good trades person or operative, who knows what they are doing, or knows someone who does. It's the age old British problem of not enough really experienced, well trained, professional people who understand what customer service is.

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It's all energy & patience sapping. You need real persistance & time to get a good outcome. I don't know how first responders do it - they are fire fighting all the time & their problems are much more serious.


Sunday, 20 September 2020

Putting Parents in Boxes

I have boxed up 4 parents - literally in coffins - not personally of course. Figuratively. I've also boxed up my daughters father. I have boxed up, or otherwise disposed of all their posessions. The representations of their lives in tangible things. Mostly things which weren't worth much financially, but were sentimentally. A lot didn't even go in boxes, but in black plastic sacks. It's not a pleasurable activity. But as you do it you go through a process of saying goodbye & in doing so reliving happier times.

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We are boxing up the living now because of Covid 19. I was boxed inside my house for months & may be again. The elderly, sick, disabled & infirm were boxed in care homes, isolation wards & hospitals, away from their closest relatives & friends.

I'm not at all sure what we should be doing in the face of a pandemic for elderly & vulnerable people. I am just wary about this idea that shutting people away from human contact apart from carers & medics is a good idea. In other, less "civilised" or culturally different societies, it simply wouldn't happen. The extended family takes responsibility for it's own.

Many of us have lost that sense of responsibility because we lead very busy lives. Many don't live close to parents or family. We, not unreasonably, put our own immediate family & job first. We have busy social lives. I know because I had that sort of professional life. I found spending enough time & effort on parents very difficult to achieve because they lived miles away. 

Who should be responsible for me or anyone? My first response is - me, myself. I'm a capable & independent person. Up to now I have been perfectly able to manage my life with all its unexpectedness & complications. I think the next 10 years of my life are going to be different, because I can feel myself changing. I don't have the stamina I did. I forget. I'm fatigued. 

Our society is not geared up to give the best experience of old age to everyone. So many people live lives of lonliness & isolation. Many live in poverty & lack sufficient healthy food. They go to food banks for boxes of necessities. Life for the elderly is OK if you have resources. If you don't you must feel trapped - boxed into poor housing.

We should be judged on what we do for anyone who is in need - Thank god for the wonderful volunteer organisations which have sprung up during this pandemic. But it just shows what our politicians & society fails to do.

It isn't as though we are actually hard up.


Tuesday, 15 September 2020

Climate Change - You & Me

I have been involved with "Eco" charities for years. I've sat at innumerable dinner tables & in coffee bars discussing climate change with mainly well educated friends. I've even discussed it with people I hardly know. I'm tired of the hand wringing negativity. I am tired of people saying that there is nothing they can do because they don't have the power to change things. It simply isn't true. Every one of us can make a difference. We just need to begin.
https://www.ethicalconsumer.org/60-actions-help-tackle-climate-change

As always the David Attenborough documentary, "Extinction - the Facts" on Sunday was really well done & informative.  It was rightly disturbing, the prospect he outlines is terrifying.
https://theconversation.com/extinction-the-facts-attenboroughs-new-documentary-is-surprisingly-radical-146127
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We are at a tipping point. If we wait it may be too late. The harms we have done will be so far gone there could be no coming back. Just think about that. Think about your children & your grandchildren. Really consider the prospect of Armageddon. If you do that you will realise that however difficult the choices you have to make now are, they are nothing in comparison to what will happen if you do nothing. Giving up meat may seem impossible, only buying local produce, in season, may seem too restrictive. Trust me the alternative is much worse.

So don't talk about it. Do something 
 school climate strike

Saturday, 12 September 2020

Uncertainty, Transition & Change


My life is in a period of uncertainty. I am one of those annoying people who want to change things & reform them if they are not right. But in my own life I do like routine, control & peace.
 
My first uncertainty is with a couple of maintenance issues in my house involving doors. I've been trying to resolve them for 6 weeks with the company who made & installed them. They should be reasonably easy to resolve if I could only get the company to do their job. The company boss will not speak to me when I phone - either that or he is never, ever, in his ofice. He certainly never returned my 6 calls. Nor has he responded, apart from once, to my 13 emails. It's really frustrating & inexplicable. It isn't as if I'm not expecting to pay for the service. 
 
My second problem is that my house has sold. Good news you may think. But the house market is in a strange state & has been for years because of the ongoing financial recession, followed by Brexit, (also ongoing), & then Covid, (about to get worse again?) People are worried about all three. Many have no certainty about their financial status because jobs are not secure. Who needs moving house in these circumstances? So there have been very few houses I would think of buying in the area I want to be.

The house I do want to buy could be perfect for me. However it needs a huge amount of work. Far more than I envisaged from the photos on line, which were completely out of date & bore no resemblance to actuality! Is that even legal? To complicate matters further the house has tenants & the law has changed considerably in favour of tenants. As a result, in 2019, three times more landlords were planning to sell than to expand their portfolio.
https://www.ftadviser.com/investments/2020/06/11/buy-to-let-after-the-pandemic/
The tenants can, (& in my case do), refuse access to landlords for viewings, surveyors, builders etc. Currently I can't get a builder in to estimate how much the work needed is likely to cost, which makes deciding what to offer difficult. 
 
Then from the 29th August Robert Jenryk extended the notice period for tenants to 6 months because of Covid. What I didn't realise is that tenants can refuse to leave even at the end of the notice period. Landlords have to take them to court to get them out, at great expense. Actually getting a court date can take years because of the huge backlog of cases.
 
So I am in a state of complete uncertainty & transition. Having made the decision that the time had come for a major change in my life, nothing seems to be within my control.
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I know the above quote is true - but it is b..... annoying in the circumstances.

Monday, 7 September 2020

Conservatives re-write the Ministerial Code

Just when you think you have seen everything that is wrong with politics today, this Conservative Government pull another rabbit out of the hat!

According to the Ministerial Code Ministers must be 'accurate and truthful' in their dealings with Parliament and comply with the principle of collective responsibility. Failure to do either would be expected to result in resignation. (I'm trying not to fall off my chair laughing). They should abide by the 7 Principles of Public Life:- Selflessness, Integrity, Objectivity, Accountability, Openness, Honesty & Leadership. (Has anyone actually told them this?)

The reason for my heavy sarcasm & cynicism is the current pandemic purge of senior civil servants:-
  • Jonathan Slater - Education
  • Sally Collier - Ofqual
  • Mark Sedwill - Cabinet Secretary
  • Simon McDonald - Foreign office
  • Sir Philip Rutnam - Home Office
  • Sir Richard Heaton - Justice
  • Sir Jonathan Jones - Legal - Resigned today 08.09.20  over the government proposing to back out of last year’s Brexit Treaty
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Boris Johnson with Mark Sedwill last year. Dominic Cummings, right, wants to shakeup Whitehall.
It looks as though the UK is heading towards the American model where the most senior advisers are brought in with each new government. Hasn't anyone told them that America is a basket case?
https://theconversation.com/why-it-matters-that-so-many-senior-civil-servants-are-quitting-under-boris-johnson-145257

The thing is that senior civil servants have a wealth of experience acquired over years of different governments.They advise elected Politicians who often know s.. all about their brief. The theory is that the Politician then makes an informed decision on what is best for the country. Having made that decision, the Politician is responsible and accountable for it.

The civil servants are not meant to be the fall guys for ministerial incompetence. They aren't meant to be expendable. But that is how this government is treating them.

Gavin Williamson - Education & Chris (Failing) Grayling - Justice, shadow Home Secretary, Transport, are recent cases in point. The latter has made so many c... ups it's really hard to see how he has managed to survive in politics at all. He has:-
  • Rushed through privatisation of Probation - now restored to public ownership
  • Said that B&B owners should be able to ban gay couples
  • Unlawfully banned books for prisoners
  • Awarded a big ferry contract to Seabourne, who didn't own any ships, costing millions
  • Allowed a change to rail timetables causing chaos
  • Oversaw significant cuts & changes to Legal Aid causing victims to be forced to confront their abuser & specified a very narrow range of official documents providing proof
You have to ask yourself why cabinet ministers like this are not made to resign immediately, when civil servants are. Indeed how are these incompetents, with no intelligence or moral compass, chosen in the first place? I have to conclude that our dear Prime Minister just want sycophants & yes men who will unquestioningly do his bidding. Or rather do the bidding of Dominic Cummings, because he is the Machiavelli behind all this & is our de facto prime minister.

So the ultimate question is - are any of them fit for purpose? I wonder what Queenie thinks?

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Sunday, 16 August 2020

Corona Virus - Covid 19 - Now is the winter of my discontent

This is the winter of my life as well as my discontent.
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Discontent because my life is not as it was 5 months ago. It is far emptier, far less rich & interesting. Time does drag in a way that I am completely unused to. Discontent because I am not at all optimistic that things will get better. In fact I believe they will get worse. Much worse.

So I feel quite guilty that I am discontented. I haven't got a family to feed & a mortgage to pay. I am retired so I don't have to worry about losing my job & having no liklihood of getting another. I don't have children who have lost the best part of a year's education - Many at a crucial time for their future. 

My small family are well & in secure jobs. The grandsons are priveleged & go to independent schools, so they have continued to be well educated.

Yesterday N..... came to collect an old cool box for Oxford Mutual Aid. They need them to deliver free meals to people. OMA & co-operatives like them, run by volunteers, are making sure that people have the basics. A lot of people. Last week they delivered 70 food parcels & over 750 meals. They have drivers, delivery co-ordinators, a small army of people who help others who are struggling.

I can't imagine the logistics of that, but they have been doing it since lockdown began. Without organisations like OMA & foodbanks there would be a lot of people in Britain in 2020 who do not eat properly!

I wish I could say that I think this has been handled well by our government. I am sympathetic to the unique difficulty of the situation. But the list of cock ups is too long. The National Risk Register first warned that a flu Pandemic was coming in 2008. Then 5 more warnings were issued untill 2017. The last time a strategy to deal with such a pandemic was published was in 2011. The last Pandemic Influenza Communications Strategy was written in 2012. They knew. They ignored all the warnings.
https://www.huffingtonpost.co.uk/entry/coronavirus-government-preparation-boris-johnson-pandemic_uk

They were so besotted with Brexit they took their eye completely off the ball. To date the total number of Covid 19 cases in the UK is 318,000. The total number of deaths is 41,366. In the first 16 weeks of 2020 20,045 more people died than the same period in 2018.
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I think the coming "winter of discontent" is going to be far worse. Be prepared.


Friday, 14 August 2020

Corona Virus / Covid 19 - Old Ladies & Young Minds

Covid has brought home to me that I am an old lady. Despite the obvious daily reinforcement of that fact when I look in the mirror. Despite the creaking joints & the memory lapses, I had persisted in hoping that it wasn't true. I laboured under the delusion that the fact that I am still capable of managing my own life meant that I'm not really old.
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https://jokesoftheday.com/old-lady-flatulence-problem-goes-doctor/

But, dear reader, even I have to admit the truth. The face has wrinkles - a lot of wrinkles. The brain does not retain information in the way that it did. Getting up & down stairs is increasingly difficult. There is a distict tendency to drop off to sleep when reading or watching TV - however interesting the book or the programme is. The body is getting flabby.

There is hope though. I can enjoy the company of others. I can listen, support, console & offer advice. (Hopefully reasonably sparingly). I can be a part of the lives of others, if they will have me.

I can also enjoy doing things which give me pleasure. Joy of joys, I can also say no - I would prefer not to do that. Having always been a "good girl". Having always done what I was told & put others first, I can now, to a certain extent, please myself.

Although I can't remember, I can continue learning & expanding my mind. So long as I know how to access the information, when, rather than if, I forget it. I'm on a roll, because I'm learning what interests me. What matters to me. I have time, especially now that Covid has taken away almost all the things that I did B.C.

You have to be positive. You have to find the good in a situation, however difficult that might be. You have to keep an young, open, mind.

Thursday, 30 July 2020

John Lewis - Civil Rights & a Small World

John Lewis died on the 17th July. I have to admit I had never heard of him, although he was a member of the House of Representatives for Georgia for 43 years. He was a leading Civil Rights campaigner in the 60's alongside Martin Luther King. 
https://s.abcnews.com/images/Politics/john-lewis-quote-mo-20200711_hpMain_16x9_992.jpg

The thing that makes him resonate with me is his powerful "house" analogy, which is as apposite  today as it was back in the 60's.

"We all live in the same house, we all must be part of the effort to hold down our little house. When you see something that is not right, not fair, not just, do something about it".

"We are one people with one family. We all live in the same house, and through books, through information, we must find a way to say to people that we must lay down the burden of hate. For hate is too heavy a burden to bear".

"We’re one people. We’re one family. We all live in the same house. Not just an American house but the world house". 

It is a thought that world leaders would do well to consider. Today our world is a small place. We have far better communications than we did in the 60's. The internet didn't exist. Social Media didn't exist. We weren't constantly in touch, carrying powerful computers around in our pockets. 

I believe in the Butterfly Effect - A butterfly beats its wings in a corner of the globe and that single action changes the weather halfway across the world. A small positive vibration can change the entire cosmos. But it can be a change for good or ill. We all need to make our wings of change for good felt.

We do all live in one house. We all have a responsibility to maintain that house & make newcomers welcome. We need to share what we have & treat all equally. We have to fight for what is right for everyone. We have to denounce the things that are wrong. 

The house is capable of providing all that we need - warmth, food, shelter companionship. But only if we really care for it. If we don't it will ultimately be overtaken by weeds & fall apart.

Is that is what is happening now?  


Sunday, 26 July 2020

Corona - Taking Responsibilty - Personal Risk

After completely shielding for months I am relaxing my choices. I started to see one or two close friends & family outside in gardens, then indoors with doors open. I have shopped in a big supermarket & a smaller one wearing a mask. I have been to hospital for a non urgent appointment. This week I stayed with some friends overnight.

The amazing thing is that I am even Blogging about that. That it is worthy of comment. That it is out of the ordinary. But that is what Covid 19 has done. It as made the normal abnormal & the abnormal normal.

I am 75. I have several health conditions. But what I choose to do or not to do is my decision. I know myself better than anyone else. There is enough reputable & reliable information available, if you bother to look for it, so that people can make informed choices for themselves.

We all need to do our own individual risk assessment & take responsibility for our own actions. So I'm not going to big family get togethers. I'm not going on holiday for the forseeable future. We need to be pro-active whilst taking care to consider the impact of our behaviour on others.

There will be a time when there should be an evaluation of how well or badly Covid 19 was handled by governments & health professionals. I know what I think, but now is not the time for negativity. The world has to adjust to this & plan for a permanent health related threat. Covid isn't going away & isn't the only virus.

But governments, like police forces, cannot work in isolation. They work by consent. Each individual has a responsibility to make democracy work. For everyone.
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Many good things have come out of this pandemic. One is the way people have risen to the challenge of supporting people like me. Medics & carers & many other front line workers have knowingly put themselves at risk to help & care.

Each individual now has to behave responsibly making sure that they don't risk their own, or anyone else's, life for short term gain. The trick is to do that without damaging economies beyone repair.