Bodies - Love them or hate them?

I recently watched "Good Luck to you Leo Grande" starring Emma Thompson.

https://www.imdb.com/title/tt13352968/

It was a brave movie for a woman of a certain age to make. Especially the final scene where she literally bares all. It made me think about body image & sexual mores. 

A large proportion of adults are either overweight or obese in the UK, and the issue disproportionately affects those in more deprived areas. Obesity is associated with a range of health problems, including increased risk of heart disease, type 2 diabetes, and certain types of cancer, which places a substantial burden on the NHS and the wider economy, with rising costs for treatments and care. Obesity rates are also high among children, with a notable disparity between children from more and less developed areas.

I am not suggesting that Emma Thompson is obese or has any form of body dismorphia. 

At the other end of the scale the prevalence of anorexia (trying to control your weight by not eating enough food, exercising too much, or doing both), bulimia (losing control over how much you eat and then taking drastic action to not put on weight) & binge eating disorder (eating large portions of food until you feel uncomfortably full) seems to also be high. At least 1.25 million people in the UK are living with an eating disorder. That's more than 1 in 50 people – but the real number could be even higher.

Cosmetic plastic surgery & enhancement procedures seem to be on the rise in the UK to address perceived flaws or insecurities. The portrayal of "perfect" bodies and faces by influencers and celebrities on platforms like Instagram and TikTok can create pressure on young people to pursue cosmetic enhancements to achieve similar looks. Reality TV shows featuring individuals who have undergone cosmetic procedures contribute to normalizing and even glamorizing surgery, making it seem like a readily attainable option. The negative impact of unrealistic beauty standards perpetuated by media and social media is really worrying & the "treatments" can be risky. Especially as the sector isn't well regulated.

It is normal to have a wide variety of human body shapes. To my mind it shouldn't be normal to put a huge strain on your body & organs because of excessive weight or extreme thinness. I sometimes look at faces, buttocks & breasts of some women who have had fillers & feel that we have gone too far in our manipulation of what we look like. While it is good to make the best of what nature gave us, we should feel comfortable in our own bodies. Who are we trying to please, ourselves or others?

There are people who really need the help of clever surgeons, children who are born with cleft palates for example. Most of us really don't. We should be able to understand that what we look like does not determine who we are. We need to value ourselves enough to be confident & not abuse the bodies we have.